There are a million reasons why a relationship can crash and burn. Whether it's because you don't have the guts to make it work or you just get sick and tired of jumping through hoops. Eventually everyone fails. I've heard that a person with a determined heart frightens problems away and that miracles do happen if you're willing to look for them. But than again they also say when you do nothing at all things have a way of fixing themselves. So what approach do you take on this vicious circle that has been put upon you?
In relationships love does exist. I believe it does, well atleast that's what I tell myself. The bottom line is that every couple wait and go through the same crap as everybody else but the big difference is that the couple truly right for eachother don't let these "problems" take them down. You can't expect everything to be perfect because if you do than you would just end up disappointed. Both people are going to make mistakes but your pride will keep you from apologizing. But one of the two will stand up and fight for that relationship every time, if it's right. The other will notice in time what they let slip away. What people don't see is that the key to a lot of things is balance. The balance of power, balance in love or maybe just balance itself. For some of us it seems out of reach and too difficult to achieve but the important thing is to never stop trying.
I like to think that our life comes down to the choices we make along the way. Like the choice of standing up and saying what you believe in, the choice to focus on important things rather than stupid things. The choice on whether to fly our or not. I look at these choices as tiny little tests. Some can be looked as a test of character or a test of fortitude and others can be a test of friendship. In the end you just have to trust your decision and hope that you'll land on solid ground. But with this there are a lot of things that can take you by surprise. Sometimes it's realizing you aren't as happy as you thought and sometimes is when you take a chance and win for a change.
At the end letting go is never easy. There is no more difficult thing to do than letting go of someone you cared for or loved. Sometimes the small gap of hope that was left open for you to see happiness closes right before your eyes. So when that door is closed shut just remember that another door is waiting to be opened. Once you've made your decision don't look back and wonder what could've been, look forward and remember that eventually you're going to find someone else that will make you feel ten times better than the other ever did. Is it difficult? Of course it is, and it's going to take TIME (4 letter word I hate). It's part of life, you can't go through life without heartaches, it's just not possible.
"Whats even scarier is that deep down inside you know you picked this person. And if you run away from them now, you're running away from the person you always wanted to be."
[Turns Light Off...Closes Door]
Song dedicated to you:
Underwood - So Small
Your Gaurdian Angel